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And the two pieces Im wearing here from Mizzen+Main check that box

Men may also wear a popular variant, where all parts (morning coat or waistcoat, and trousers) are the same colour and material, often grey, and usually called "morning suit" or "morning grey" to distinguish it

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Ignoring the trends unless you fall in love with something because you think it really defines you, in which case, go for it